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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

08.06.2025 14:35

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

How old are you? Male or Female?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

Has anyone shared his wife with a friend? How was it?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

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70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

Is love natural, or is it somehow created?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

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60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

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Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

How do great movie moments influence how people handle real-life moral dilemmas?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

How far back into your childhood can your remember and what is your favorite memory of that time?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

How would you feel about your husband allowing a mutual friend to see you naked and exposed to show off your pussy?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

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What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

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49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

52~ What are your hobbies?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

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88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

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31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

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42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

If you win, what will you make them do?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

Please share Did you stop?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

Any that are a turn off?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

The Ice Breaker Questions

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

29- How superstitious are you?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

39~ What are your love languages?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

What is your favorite position? Why?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

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21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

Would you read them together?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

62~ Have you used adult toys?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

If yes, what?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

Family Relation Age Play

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

*** Questions About Me ***

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

*** Random Questions ***

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

Any that are a turn off?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

Nothing too Serious

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?